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How To Love…You (first!)

February 21, 2020

So you’re probably looking on the basic rules of how to love…something that strikes a chord in you?

How to Love

If you’re looking for a tiny guide of common sense, wisdom, and guidance to get you going, then you’ve come to the right place.

As you experience the vastness of the universe, you meet people in your life.

Some will make you smile. Some will make you laugh. While others will make you cry.

Some will stay in your heart. And some will go.

Some people will love you and some people will hate you.

While you can get all the love that this world has to offer, there’s this one source of great love. I mean one of the greatest that you can experience…

And that love comes from you.

Here’s a video I created that talks about how to love…you…first!

That in doing so, you’ll get to love other people around you.

I don’t know about you but I still believe in forever.

I believe that there’s still goodness in this world. I believe in the power of love. 

More so, if we truly understand how it is to love and to be loved.

But in order for this to happen, it needs to start from you. It needs to start from within.

Why? Because you cannot give something if that comes from nothing.

To put it in simpler terms…

You cannot give what you don’t have.

You see…

It doesn’t have to be this way.

And I get you…

How sweet it is to be loved by someone. .Especially if it comes from somebody you truly care about and love…

I mean, everyone needs attention. Heck, we all desire for appreciation.

But know that everything comes in the right place at the right time.

And yes it will come, it’s just a matter of time.

When you’re ready, everything will fall into place.

But for now, take this time to really think about it. Are you loving yourself enough? Do you love you that much? 

When that happens you know you’re ready…

That’s when it would really make sense to have this magical feeling to be loved by somebody.

So you’ve probably been wanting to understand what it truly means to love. How do you define love anyway?

When you love someone, does that mean you give your all? That when you do, you’ll end up empty.

Perhaps it’s about time, you redefine what it truly means to love…

Here’s what I believe love is which I learned from this powerful FLEX (Foundations of Leadership) seminar in Innovate. 

When you support the highest good of other people…and that includes yourself…

Anything can happen when you put your heart in it.

Note that when you love, you don’t take yourself out of the equation.

I believe everything starts with you.

I hope this video helps you in a way that before you love other people, you need to love yourself self.

Before you take care of other people, take care of yourself first.

And before you give yourself to other people, make sure there’s enough love you give yourself first.

So how do you love, you? First?

You may want to consider to go back to your essence.

For me, one of the ways is when I have this me time with myself. When I get to connect with myself more.

More of like spending at least 3 hours of my time in a coffee shop. Writing articles or just reading books.

Also, there are days

It also helps if you be very patient with your progress.

And this is something it was hard for me to do before.

Why? because I was having a hard time acknowledging that

Acknowledge your feelings

It’s okay not to be okay at times. And one way that you allow yourself to experience that from within is when you really acknowledge your feelings.

So when things like this happen…you are ready..

Prepare yourself, so when an opportunity comes along, you’re ready for it.

Please know that this does not apply in your relationship, but in all other endeavors that you plan to put yourself into.

Before you even love other people, you need to love you. Why? Because you cannot give what you don’t have.

 Find you. Find love.

And whatever happens, know that in the eyes of who created you,

YOU. ARE. PERFECT.

You are perfect just the way you are.

Love yourself. And see others loving you back.

You are perfect. You are enough. And you are loved.

Again, this has been March Nacino and it is my hope that through my real-life lessons, you’ll get to find your life mission.

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