After 34 years of believing that life is a game, I discovered the DECEIVINGLY simple, but EXTREMELY powerful ways you can win in life and become…
THE GRANDEST VERSION OF YOURSELF!
Have you ever experienced situations that keep repeating itself, not necessarily the same way as before but still repeats itself?
Do you feel like you are “programmed”, or wondering why the same thing keeps happening to you?
Did you ever feel so alone in this world knowing that everybody is on their own special path that they are MEANT to be on? But not you…
If you are transitioning to the next decade of life and need to prioritize (again), then read on.
What I’m about to share with you are universal truths. This will help you answer the questions regarding life, your purpose and why things happen.
It puts things into perspective.
If you prefer to navigate life without having to go through ALL the rigors of “learning the hard way”, then this is for you.
WARNING: This will radically change the course of your life (in a good way)…
“Why does this keep happening to me?”
Did you ever have to ask yourself this question?
Do you always wonder why there’s always a lid towards you achieving your goals?
I can relate with you…
I used to live that way for more than 30 + years of my life. And it never felt good.
I have always been wondering what was wrong with me. Why was it hard for me to achieve my greatest goals in life? Why does life seem to be dealing me with a bad hand?
And then it dawned on me….
I’ve been carrying a FALSE BELIEF that’s holding me back in life.
A belief that has been paralyzing me for 3 decades now.
A belief that has been limiting my growth no matter how hard I focussed on something.
I was raised in an environment believing that life is a game. And how do I suppose to win? I need to be ahead of the competition. Sounds familiar?
Medals. Honors. Being at the top of your game.
Growing up, I have these as my parameters in measuring how successful people are. And that includes myself.
It all started during my childhood.
When I began attending school, it was as if my environment was telling me, I need to always be competitive.
While this helps me be at the top of my game, there was a problem…
I see every person I come in contact with as my rivals.
And this is rooted by lots of this..
TOO MUCH COMPARISON
I remember a cousin who happens to be my best-friend growing up. He has always been most favored by our relatives.
My mind was telling me…
“How do I win over my competition?”
Thinking that life is a game, during our childhood, I was secretly thinking of ways on how I get to be ahead of the game (which only existed in my mind).
Why? Because just like any other person, I see him as a competition.
And so an idea came to mind…
The only way for me to win is for me to be at the top school in our country—-which eventually happened.
And when I thought I won the game, I became lax. I got failing grades! That was when I had to be transferred to another school.
Wonder why this happened? Because my only goal was to be ahead of my competition. When I reached that goal, my default mindset was telling me, “on to the next goal! “.
COMPARISON NEVER STOPS
Just when I thought this comparinitis thing (I know that sounds jargon) already ended, I realized, the game had just started!
And it went on and on until it became a cycle.
When I transferred to another school, I journeyed with another cousin who happened to be my classmate.
Again, I would hear our relatives comparing us and our performances.
Every time I hear her winning (according to my relatives’ standards), my spirit crushed to death!
Abnormal Things Have Become Normal in Time
It was at that point when I thought, this may just be the norm. Perhaps, this thing is normal.
Guess what? Unconsciously, that has been ingrained in my being!
Fast forward to today…
I thought life was treating me well…until I begin to see the pattern again.
I remember having to launch a successful workshop, something that I have always wanted doing. I thought it was great!
But everything changed when I realized there were a lot of people doing the same thing I was doing. And because I thought they were a lot better, I SHUT DOWN!
And it has become a trend in my life. Whenever I set a goal, I just couldn’t reach my breakthrough because I have always been comparing myself with other people.
If you feel the same way, don’t worry, I discovered the DECEIVINGLY simple, but EXTREMELY powerful ways you can win in life and become the GRANDEST version of yourself!
“Everything will be okay in the end. If it’s not okay, it’s not the end. ”- John Lennon
In my desire to change my life for the better, I attended a lot of workshops and seminars. Until I found the one that’s right for me.
Subconsciously, I’ve been programmed to think that life is a game. And in order for you to win, you need to be ahead of your competition.
But NO. Life doesn’t have to be that way. I had to change my belief. I needed to SHIFT!
That one single shift in my belief has led me to achieving my breakthrough!
My hope is that these proven success secrets that I’m about to share with you will help you win in life, too.
So here they are…
3 Proven Ways to Get Massive Results and Win
1. You’re not meant to compete with anyone
It was only after 34 years of my life did I realize that I should not be in competition with anyone. Not even myself!
This has led me to discovering not just my greatness but other people’s greatness as well. That we are all unique!
We are all connected in one way or another. The only reason we compete is because we think there’s not enough for everyone. That there’s scarcity.
Can I tell you something?
There’s enough for you and me!
So the next time you tend to compare yourself with other people, have this as your reminder…
The only person you need to be better at is who you were yesterday. Just focus on your lane!
2. Breakthrough Comes from Finding Win-Win Solutions
I hear you. You’ve been hearing this from people. And the more you hear it, the more it sounds cliche to you.
But really, one of the ways that you can be successful in life is this.
Think of ways you can give value!
As Zig Ziglar would always say…
You can have everything in life you want, if you will just help other people get what they want.
And that my friend, is how you win the game of life. How? By changing your beliefs.
Because here’s what…Your beliefs create your reality!
3. Set the BAR high for Yourself
It’s not what you think.
BAR stands for Beliefs, Actions and Results!
What does that have to do with you, you ask? (I hear you)
Your beliefs about things will dictate your actions. Your actions will lead you to your results.
Of course, change doesn’t happen overnight. You need to constantly remind yourself to be aware on what it is you believe in.
Because you know what? Your BELIEFS dictates how you ACT. And your ACTIONS, dictate your RESULTS!
So, you don’t want the results that you’re seeing right now?
CHANGE YOUR BELIEF SYSTEM!
And that my friend is how you win at life!
Start applying this DECEIVINGLY simple, but EXTREMELY powerful ways in your life and you will become…
The GRANDEST, BOLDEST and BIGGEST version of yourself!
Rooting for you,